In need some friendly support

[Rinyotsu]

Long story short, a girl whom I was wanting to date gave me signs that she just wanted to be friends (i.e. talking about her another guy who was her ex or just about to be her ex) and a girl, whom was single as of a few months ago, showed signs of having a crush on me and honestly scared me with what she wrote on a chat site. She reminded me of how emotionally unstable I was last year and I knew the remedy was knowing she had a friend who was there for her.
on the 13th, before school, I gave girl one a box of chocolates. She took them and acted in a friendly way, no hug or nothing of the sort. Thus I concluded she only wanted to be friends so I left it at that and went to class.
During 2nd block, girl 2 looked kind of sick or depressed so I didn´t talk to her that block or 4th block.
After school that same day, girl 1 tried handing the chocolates back because she had overheard girl 2 talking about how i asked girl 2 to be my valentine (so that girl 2 felt like someone cared to try to get her out of her depression) the night before. She accused me of being a two timer (more or less).
Later that day, I told girl 1 that she had given me signs that she still wanted to be with the other guy. She told me ¨you sound like you´re breaking up with me¨ in a text. At this point I am confused by her and just want it to be over. I change my relationship status on facebook from nothing to ¨single¨ and left it at that.

I´m looking for friendly support because I just feel like I am going to collapse and just about any words of encouragement would be appreciated, words that help clear my mind would be life savers because I honestly just feel like right now and there is really no other way to put it.

[Alpea42]

Try girl #3 ,third times a charm. I'm married to my 3rd wife for 18 years now:D

[groundrushesup]

Long story short, a girl whom I was wanting to date gave me signs that she just wanted to be friends (i.e. talking about her another guy who was her ex or just about to be her ex) and a girl, whom was single as of a few months ago, showed signs of having a crush on me and honestly scared me with what she wrote on a chat site. She reminded me of how emotionally unstable I was last year and I knew the remedy was knowing she had a friend who was there for her.
on the 13th, before school, I gave girl one a box of chocolates. She took them and acted in a friendly way, no hug or nothing of the sort. Thus I concluded she only wanted to be friends so I left it at that and went to class.
During 2nd block, girl 2 looked kind of sick or depressed so I didn´t talk to her that block or 4th block.
After school that same day, girl 1 tried handing the chocolates back because she had overheard girl 2 talking about how i asked girl 2 to be my valentine (so that girl 2 felt like someone cared to try to get her out of her depression) the night before. She accused me of being a two timer (more or less).
Later that day, I told girl 1 that she had given me signs that she still wanted to be with the other guy. She told me ¨you sound like you´re breaking up with me¨ in a text. At this point I am confused by her and just want it to be over. I change my relationship status on facebook from nothing to ¨single¨ and left it at that.

I´m looking for friendly support because I just feel like I am going to collapse and just about any words of encouragement would be appreciated, words that help clear my mind would be life savers because I honestly just feel like right now and there is really no other way to put it.


LOL facebook status! That's funny. I guess the media changes but the story stays the same. :Q

Girl 1 is playing you and you are playing Girl 2, so its hard to be indignant about how Girl 1 is treating you because you are doing the same thing to Girl 2. Its a little conundrum we call "the human condition".

At the root of all this drama is an angst that - even though it is gut-wrenching - is the flame of life. I hate to break it to you this way, but this heartache feeling, this abject swoonery - most people look back on these sorts of incidents fondly, and remember them as periods in their life when the really felt... well, I can't think of another way to put this... they felt alive. Like they were grabbing love by the horns and wrestling it down like the Greek heroes of old...

I mean, there is a reason that older women read romance novels. Men? Well, men find other things to replace this feeling, like jumping out of planes or waterskiing naked. LOL just kidding with the last one.

In summation: you will be fine. Just like Alpea said, girl #3 will come along, then #4, and so on, etc...

Until then, keep the faith. And eat the chocolates. ;-)

GRU

[TDisaster]

Men? Well, men find other things to replace this feeling, like jumping out of planes or waterskiing naked.
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I do the second thing now, and I'm 16. That is not a good sign. :Q



No worries about it man. Your not even out of school. Why kids are so worried about being with someone these days confuses me. Sit back and enjoy life, someone will come to you eventually :).

[Rinyotsu]

I´m no longer wantng relationship for maybe a decade (after I leave this boring town) or until I find someone after I turn 20 or 21.
I wasn´t obssessed this semester with getting a girl like I was last semester, it was just like a major case of confusion. I was in a relationship, no i wasn´t, yes i was, nope sure as hell wasn´t. lol, thats the summerization of these last 3 weeks.
Tomorrow I go back to school and I am going to be on alert for both girls and their friends incase.

On the me playing girl 2, I was concerned because she seemed to be in a depression and I wanted to help her. Besides being in a depression, she seemed to have a crush on me. I was caught up in major confusion. Girl 2 seemed to have a crush on me, girl 1 is ¨just psycho¨ as said by one of my friends.

Well, going to live the single life for a while, ah.
Finishing up a few reinforcements on my plane (which I fixed and reinforced and added custom made landing gear) which has kept me company for this week end.
Thank you Alpea, groundrushesup, 3disaster for your kind words.